The Mad Homework Dash

It would seem that all my kids do during the weekdays is eat, sleep and do homework. No, it's probably more like do homework, eat while doing homework and get whatever sleep they can get after the homework is done.

As soon as they get home from school, they make a mad dash to eat lunch. Sadly, conversation is not encouraged during lunch as it takes away the precious time required to complete the day's homework. Then they make a mad dash to have a bath. Sadly, singing in the bathroom and having fun playing with soap bubbles is not encouraged either as it takes away the precious time required to complete the day's homework. Blah blah blah.

Then the homework starts. If you are in the 'smart' class which isn't very smart at all since it means more homework, the kids will be burdened with extra pages of homework from additional workbooks. The std 4 girl has to copy essays to improve on and master her Chinese Character writing. Once, I gave her 25 minutes to copy an essay as I saw she still had a lot of other work to complete. She took 2 hours! I was so exasperated, I said this won't do. You are taking too long, you will need to work faster!

So, I took the essay and copied it myself. I took an hour! The girl took 2 because she wanted to understand what she was copying and not copy blindly. That's a good practice but I say, sorry, you don't have time for that. Just copy!

Then she has to copy out maths questions from her workbook. She is not allowed to write on the workbook since it is the free workbook from school which will be passed on to another child next year. So she meticulously copies each question and tries to do the hard sums in hard pressed moments with mum shouting to her to hurry up! Each sum must be copied and written in the perfect manner too. If told to leave a line between sums and have a line drawn in between and this is not done, she fears she has to erase and redo everything. So she rubs and writes, rubs and writes to make everything perfect. Doubling the time required.

Next, she has to copy out some Chinese questions and tackles those. Mum, I don't know how to do this one, can you help? she asks. I look at the question. It says, look at the given lines of phrases, A, B, C, and D. For each one, there are 3 phrases given. Find out which line does not contain a wrong 2 worded phrase. That's easy. B is the answer. No, its not so simple mum, the other lines have mistakes in them. We have to find out what are the mistakes and write down the correct phrase for those. Oh....... That's very detailed and time consuming....

Its tea time now, sorry kids, you'll have to eat as you do your work. There isn't time! And so the mad dash continues.... Another 4 pages of English homework.... Write 2 pages of Chinese Characters... 2 pages of Bahasa Malaysia... What?! You still have to do 5 pages of Chinese&BM&Science&English work from that Magazine? Hurry up then!

2 more homework... Mum, I have to study for Ejaan and Ting Seah tomorrow and I haven't finished my art. Faster! It's dinner time! and you haven't packed your bags. It's dinner time. Stop! Stop this moment. Go and wash your hands and eat. Leave everything as it is, we'll have to continue after dinner. Eat as fast as you can. No talking.

After dinner. Hurry up its so late now, its almost bedtime. You need sleep. Come on. Pack your bag quickly. Forget about that homework. It's not important! Just answer that. But mum! I can't copy..... Just answer it! You'll have to do what you can. You need sleep! The dash heats up now. Work that has not been completed gets done in a hurry, all learning efforts are thrown out the window and mum and children dashes to complete the homework. Homework is now done for the sake of completing them or else.....the kids face the wrath of the teachers the next day and get twice the homework! If you carry anything forward, it will just accumulate and snowball.

We make a final dash, then dash to the bathroom to brush teeth, wash up and change and its lights off! No time for a book or chat. It's straight from the study table to bed. No time for a warm drink, no time to relax and wind down. It's so sad. It's mad. I'm mad!

Nilai Murni for Bahasa Malaysia paper UPSR format

Nilai murni 2012 from Ahmad Syukri

My girl is in Std 4 studying in SJKC. She will be sitting for her UPSR in Std 6. In school, they start to prepare them for the UPSR format of answering questions starting from Std 3. Perhaps that is why some parents say after the honeymoon years of Std 1 and Std 2, there is a big jump in difficulty in the lessons.

Anyway, this post focuses on the Bahasa Malaysia Paper or more specifically Part C of the Bahasa Malaysia Penulisan, Writing Paper or Paper 2 for BM which is the Nilai Murni or Pendidikan Moral part. The Penulisan Paper is divided into 3 Parts, Parts A, B and C. Briefly, Part A has 10 marks. The student must build 5 sentences (Bina Ayat) from one picture or a series of pictures. Estimated time to answer this part is 15 minutes.

Part B is the Essay Writing or Karangan part which is given 30 marks in total. The student must write an essay of not less than 60 words and is given 3 Essay choices to choose from. Estimated time 40 minutes.

Finally, Part C which is the focus of this post is 20 marks. Students must write out in not more than 40 words, usually 4 (or more) Nilai Murni or Moral Values based on a given excerpt or Petikan. Estimated time 20 minutes.

Here is a good book for Practise on Nilai Murni writing. The publisher is Hup Lick Publishing (M) Sdn Bhd. This one that I have is for Standard 3. The title is Latihan Penulisan Pengenalan Bahagian C Kertas 2 Tahun 3. For Tahun 4,5 and 6, the word Pengenalan is removed. It is a good step-by-step guide towards understanding how to answer this part of the UPSR Paper 2 Part C.

Nilai Murni References:

1. Senarai Nilai Murni - This one lists the Nilai Murni bilingually in Malay and Chinese. A pity one can't download or print it unless you subscribe, pay, or upload something in return. You can view it online however. 

2. UPSR BM (Bahagian C) Nilai-Nilai Murni - This is a printable list. To print, just press the download button, save it onto your PC, then print it out. It is however fully in Malay only

3. There are references in Malay or Malay/Chinese but I have trouble finding a Malay/English reference. Since there are no lists bilingually in Malay and English, I created my own Nilai Murni List in Malay/English. Here it is. 

Nilai-Nilai Murni (Moral Values) for Bahagian C Penulisan Paper

1. Menghargai Masa - Treasure or Value Time
2. Rajin - Hardworking
3. Menjaga Kesihatan - Take care of health/Health Conscious
4. Menghormati ibu bapa - Respect parents
5. Menjaga keselamatan - Take care of safety/Safety Conscious
6. Menolong - Helpful
7. Cepat Bertindak - Quick Thinking
8. Bekerjasama - Co-operative
9. Bersyukur - Gratitude
10. Menghargai pertolongan - Thankful for Help
11. Menepati Masa - Punctual
12. Menjaga Kebersihan - Hygiene and Cleanliness
13. Semangat cintakan negara/patriotisme - Patriotic
14. Memberi tumpuan - Focussed
15. Berhati-hati - Careful
16. Memberikan penghargaan - To honour and respect
17. Melakukan aktiviti and berfaedah - spend time doing useful activities
18. Mematuhi peraturan/arahan - Obey rules and regulations
19. Menjaga Kesihatan Diri - Personal Hygiene
20. Menjaga Kebersihan Persekitaran - Care about the environment
21. Menepati Janji - Keep one's promise
22. Bersabar - Patience
23. Berdikari - Independant
24. Berhemah Tinggi - Good Manners
25. Rajin Belajar - Hardworking in studies
26. Mengenang Jasa - To remember what others have done for us
27. Bertanggungjawab - Responsible
28. Berusaha - Endevour to work hard
29. Membalas Jasa - To repay what others have done for us
30. Tekun - Diligent
31. Rajin Membantu Ibu - Helpful towards mother
32. Berkongsi - Sharing
33. Menghargai pemberian - Value Gifts
34. Baik Hati - Kind
35. Berani - Brave or Courageous
36. Ikhlas - Sincere
37. Saksama - Reasonable
38. Bergotong-royong - Co-operative and work together
39. Bercita-cita tinggi - Ambitious
40. Berdisiplin - Disciplined
41. Bersemangat Tinggi - Keen and Eager, Enthusiastic
42. Bijak Menggunakan Masa - Spend time wisely
43. Semangat Bermasyarakat - Community Spirit
44. Rasional - Rational
45. Hormat - Respect
46. Kasih Sayang - Affection
47. Kejujuran - Honesty
48. Keadilan - Justice
49. Keserdehanaan - Moderation
50. Kebersihan fizikal dan mental - Physical and Mental Health
51. Bersopan-santun - Polite
52. Berjimat - Prudent or thrifty
53. Murah Hati - Generous
54. Prihatin/Ambil Berat - Concern
55. Peramah - Friendly

Hope this was useful for other English Speaking Families. My girl came up with part of the list. I'm off to print it out now for her. Feel free to print or share but remember to link back to me to this page. Thanks. Please note that I am just a parent, not an educator so do not rely on this for accuracy. It is just for simple reference to make explaining the Nilai Murni to english speaking children a little easier, that is all. I have tried to use the most basic English and as little words as possible in the English translation for the Nilai Murni to keep things simple. 

Another thing to note is my list also tends to be more simplified for those just learning the Nilai Murni rather than as a reference for those taking the actual UPSR Nilai Murni which may be harder.

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Paper Doll Creations

Making paper dolls is a fun activity for kids. You can make paper dolls from pieces of recycled paper. With a little creativity, kids can come up with wonderful paper doll creations. Of course it would be great if you  had glitters, colored pens and stickers to add to the fun. I remember buying a box set for making paper dolls  for my kids. They have been playing with it for a few years now.

The set comes with paper doll templates and cutouts, scissors, colored paper, stencils, stickers, markers, glue stick plus instructions everything included. It's a lovely paper doll art set. My kids love this paper doll activity kit. When they are free, we would sit down and make some paper dolls and use them as book marks. These paper dolls are fun to make.

Recently we had some children who came along with their parents to our home for a gathering. So we took out our paper doll creations set and asked them to create something. The children were happy and so were their parents. Let me show you some pictures of the paper doll creation set and the paper dolls created by the children. These are fun to make for a rainy day indoors and they make excellent book marks.

Paper Doll Activity Box

This is our Paper Doll Creation box set

Paper Doll Activity Set

The Paper Dolls box set comes with paper doll cutouts, stickers, stencils and colored paper

Paper Dolls

These are the paper dolls the kids created. They are so adorable.

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Here are some other adorable paper doll creation kits for children 

Creating Our Very Own Family Traditions

Dragon Shape Helium Balloon

We do not have many old folks or family traditions carried forward from both sides of my as well as my husband's family. So what do we do? We make our own family traditions. It is easy and fun to create your own family traditions.

We like to create a family culture that the kids can remember when they grow up. "We used to do this when we were young.....". It is very nice to have memories like these so we try our best to give them good memories.

Good memories come from simple things.

For example, one of the things we do during every Chinese New Year is to buy cute shaped helium balloon for the kids on the first day of Chinese New Year. We've been doing this every since they were toddlers. Then we'll let go of the balloon and watch it fly in the sky.  I suppose you could say its our way of saying goodbye to the old year and hello to the New Year.

The kids love this and look forward to this simple routine each year. They'll go "... and after we do this.... we'll go and get our balloons. This year, I want a .... balloon." then they'll have a fine time selecting their balloons. This year being the year of the Dragon, we got a Dragon balloon.

Do you have any unique and special family tradition you can call your own? If not, why not create one?

Where to find Valentine's Day Craft Ideas for kids

Image Credit: Domagron Novelty

Valentine's Day is fast approaching and for crafters this is the perfect time for creating crafts with kids. If you are naturally creative, you can come up with just about any craft you can at any time using everyday household items. However, if you are not that creative like me, you need some ideas. Don't worry there are plenty!

Here is one place where you can go to find Valentine's Day Craft Ideas for kids. It's none other than the Squidoo Monsterboards.

So, what is Squidoo? 
Squidoo is a community website that allows users to create pages (called lenses) for subjects of interest. To me, it is like a cross between a blog and a website. You get all the goodies and beauty of a website with the unique and constantly updated content of a blog.

What is the Squidoo Monsterboards?
It is a leaderboard featuring the best of Squidoo. Some are updated live hourly using an algorithmic. Others are based on ranking or editorially curated, handpicked and static showing the best of the best lenses on Squidoo on a particular subject. It is rather like a summary of the best lenses you can get for a specific topic.

For Valentine's Day I would recommend 4 Squidoo Monsterboards that you must visit.

1. Best of Squidoo - Valentine's Day Love Stories
2. 45 Unique Valentine's Day Gift Ideas
3. 40 Fabulous Valentine's Day Crafts
4. Best of Squidoo - Valentine's Day Treats 2012

40 Fabulous Valentine's Day Crafts is the site to visit for Valentine's Day Craft Ideas for Kids and other Crafters alike. You will get plenty of ideas there for sure, from handmade Valentine's Day gifts to face painting ideas, ornament crafts, decorations, coloring pages, printables, knitting and crochet patterns for Valentine's Day and much more.

Though the monsterboard heading is 40 Fabulous Valentine's Day Crafts, it actually should read 40 Fabulous Valentine's Day Craft lenses for within each of the 40 featured Squidoo lenses, there are many more ideas, totalling much more than 40 craft ideas. The lenses are organized visually. You can view the headings by scrolling over the attractive pictures then head over to whatever Valentine's Day craft lens that interest you.

I am happy to say that two of my lenses are featured in the Valentine's Day Crafts Monsterboard while one lens is listed on the Valentine's Day Gift Ideas monsterboard. :)

If you are planning to make Valentine's Day crafts with kids, do head over to my Valentine's Day Craft Supplies for Kids Lens for some ideas on what you need for your crafts.

Happy Valentine's Day!